I don't think your characterization of us is entirely accurate; there may be aspects of it that could have a glimmer of truth, however.
It just so happens that she looked a lot like the actress in the movie.
So seeing her bound and gagged and treated by very badly in the final third of that film had an extra special sense of enjoyment for me.
I mean, who hasn't been ignored, been humiliated by or been flat out rejected by the pretty girl in school?
A lot of guys (and not just the ones who have the fetish) don't have the social skills that endear them to women, and they go their whole lives never learning what it takes to attract them.
I've never been married but I lived with a girl for a couple years who was aware of my bondage fetish.
In fact, the reason we get together was that she was into the same stuff, although not nearly to the same degree.My first wife, when I tried to share fantasy play with her (the first woman I tried it with) was disgusted and would have none of it.My second was disgusted and frightened but now gets off on being flogged while stretched out (but not tied) or in fantasizing while being masturbated.Anybody ever have a similar personal experience from watching a movie?I always assumed that this fetish developed in most people before they even had sexual thoughts about the opposite sex. I convinced my babysitter to tie me up when I was about 8 or 9.I think I've mentioned this story a few times on the board.