But there’s something unappealing about doing the same song and dance with each new dating prospect. And it shouldn’t make you feel forced into making unhealthy choices (like boozing every night for a week straight), or even worse: bored. Sure, wine tasting at a wine shop or restaurant is super fun. Sitting at a coffee shop can be a little drab, but picking up a coffee and walking around the neighborhood can make it that much better. It’s a great way to build up adrenaline, have some laughs, and soak up the sun while at it.
They can be a bit pricey, but deal sites like Gilt and Groupon often offer amazing discounted options. You never know when that purchase (or the subsequent cheese-making skills) is going to come in handy. Use dating as an opportunity to check things off and tread unchartered waters.
And by ice cream social, we mean meet up at a self-serve ice cream or frozen yogurt shop. ) Aside from the awesome treat, it’s also pretty incredible how much you can learn about someone based on his or her topping choices. Visiting a historic site may not be the sexiest thing you’ve ever done, but you’ll never know until you try.
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) dinner at bars and restaurants we’ve been to dozens of times before? Theme parks aren’t limited to teenage birthday parties. ) But theme parks a great excuse to eat a funnel cake. When the warmer months hit, calendars explode with opportunities to take your favorite activities outside.
Don’t get us wrong—we enjoy (responsible) drinking just as much as college freshmen. The rides are actually pretty fun, and big roller coaster drops provide the perfect opportunity to initiate a little hand holding. From outdoor movies to concerts to theater performances, the options are endless. Tune in to local newsletters or magazines that aggregate events, and check daily deal sites for the best options—you never know what you’ll find!
Heck, use them for any type of date—first and beyond! Though optimal for warmer months, it could even be fun to bring spiked hot chocolate in a thermos and stroll through the snow. )Cooking is always a great alternative to going out, but it can feel a bit awkward going to a stranger’s home on the first date. Sitting down for a long meal can feel stuffy—especially on the first date. (We suggest snacking on a baked good too.)OK, trespassing may not be the best suggestion on this list, but it can certainly be fun. You can make it as simple or complicated as desired, and you can always throw in the towel and grab a drink if needed—alone with each other.
Instead, get your hands dirty at a local cooking class. To shake things up (and enjoy more cuisines), pick three different places to nosh at. No, we’re not talking about taking a stroll in the nude (though kudos to you if you do). Whether you go for a long bike ride, try outdoor rock climbing (psst, an indoor rock climbing wall is an awesome option too), go for a hike, or take some swings on the golf course, the natural air make the date that much sweeter. No matter where you live and how long you’ve been there, there are likely things on your tourist bucket list.
(We like to reward whoever gets the most gutter balls.)Whitney, Mariah, JT…