Some guys need more stimulation to the underside of the glans while others need pressure more than friction.Some need more varied friction while others do better with a specific rhythm. after all, how’s a partner supposed to get you off when don’t know what you need?
One of the most common complaints that couples have during sex is the feeling that they should be having Look-Ma-No-Hands orgasms.
The problem is, only a small minority of women are able to orgasm strictly from penetration; the vast majority require some form of clitoral stimulation… Some women require very intense, direct clitoral stimulation – sometimes a level of intensity that only a vibrator can give – while others are easier to get off than a pair of shoes.
because it’s information our partners would rather dearly like to know.
We like to make jokes-that-aren’t-really-jokes about how guys are easy to please and every guy jerks it the exact same way… Just as no two women masturbate the same way, neither do guys.
It’s also possible for guys to actually make it harder ((Phrasing!
)) for others to get them off; many guys actually desensitize themselves by using an extreme level of pressure or friction that the human body just can’t match; they jerk themselves through their clothing, or rub themselves against a wash cloth or a carpet.
and even then, the level and of stimulation will vary from woman to woman. The better you know yourself – whether you need direct contact with the clit or slightly off to the sides, whether you’re very sensitive and require the lightest of touches or you need someone to bury their face right on top – the better able you are to guide your partner.
Be sure to vary your masturbation routines – using more lube, less lube, switching hands, or different types of stim in order to keep from developing a specific habit that might keep you from being able to achieve any sort of climax with a partner.
The idea that nothing counts besides a penis going into a vagina has led to a brilliant bit of rules-lawyering by teens who want to get around pesky “virginity pledges” or religious restrictions against pre-marital sex by referring to “technical” virginity.