If she’s getting a bunch of typical, boring texts from you, and other guys are sending her texts that make her feel good and capture her interest, she’s going to go out with them and not you. To begin with, the phone number by itself is totally useless, and here’s why: When a girl gives you her number, she’s not giving you a guarantee of a date.She’s only giving you an invitation to keep contacting her.
It’s like some kind of secret language that we’re expect to already know how to speak. an unfair advantage over every other guy she’s talking to.
Texting IS that superpower, and here’s why it’s critical to learn it if you want more women in your life: Also, it’s important to learn this because, if she’s at all attractive, she has other guys who are texting her as well.
The first thing you need to know is that learning how to text a girl is not like learning math. Most guys won’t bother reading a post like this, and so you’ll be way ahead of them and have an unfair advantage.
In other words, when you learn that 1 1 = 2, you don’t need to learn anything else to understand it better. Texting is more like learning how to speak another language, or play an instrument, or learning a sport. With that said, let’s dive into the five principles of texting.
If you give her a spike of positive feelings with your texts and THEN ask her out…
that’s like heating up the metal and then bending it. When you ask her out while she’s feeling good about you, the chances of her saying yes are much higher.
During that time, you’re competing with all her social media notifications, friends, family, and other guys who are interested in dating her as well. just like you do, so how are you going to stand out in that sea of noise? Most women don’t answer the phone these days, and prefer to communicate by text (at least until they get to know you better). It’s a requirement if you want to date an attractive woman.
Let’s start with how to actually learn about texting.
This will help remind you that you need to get her out on a date, not waste time becoming her texting buddy.
The High-Status Filter also helps when you’re feeling anxious and waiting for her to reply to your messages and she’s taking longer than you want. But would you waste gas, waste time, and put stress on the engine?
Have you ever met a girl and you were both clearly interested in seeing each other again, but for some reason you never got her out on the first date? She gave you her number, you started texting each other, but then something weird happened…It’s simple. When you learn the rules of the game, you can play to win.