What surprised me most though is that folks who concerned about the prudence of such a decision weren’t worried that my children might not learn enough or the the right things.They didn’t wonder how my kids would know how to be quiet when they were supposed to or to wait in lines when they have to. Learnin’, schmlearning- those kids need to be among herds of other kids their exact age in order to learn how to be normal.It’s the extra push that get’s you engaged beyond the causal nod stage.
I’m going to tell you something about men and porn that is so important, so profound, that I’ll write it in all caps, bold it and use italics…oh, and put it in red also: A man could be in the most amazing relationship, with the most beautiful woman in the world, and have mind-blowing sex every day, and he would still look at porn. It means nothing and you can’t stop it anymore than you can stop the tides. If a man sees a woman he doesn’t like he’ll have brief flashes of thought about how he wouldn’t like to do her. It is a curse and all men simply learn to disregard these images and thoughts. If one of the checkers is especially attractive, but has the longest line, we will probably take it anyway if we don’t look too creepy doing it.
Again, this so obvious it’s hardly worth mentioning. We don’t do this because we have allusions to getting lucky. We just get a kick out of being in the company of beautiful women. This means that we are attracted to most of our female friends.
So if you are a female with lots of males friends, you probably have a lot of men who, under different circumstances, would most definitely like to have sex with you.
Our first thought is “there’s no way anyone woman in their right mind, with any standards or pride, would have sex with that”. And if we had to be born female, we’d prefer to be a lesbian. One of the main driving forces for a man to settle down is to secure access to frequent and reliable sex. By pairing up with a woman who can provide sex on a frequent basis, we’ve eliminated one of life’s biggest distractions and sources of frustration. This is because by having sex you just demonstrated to him that you have a relationship to begin with. But I don’t, because I understand that for whatever reason, she will buy utilitarian items and designate them as “decorative” so they can’t be used.
If they spend their whole childhood trying to be something they’re not or believing that what they are is weird and weird is bad, they’ll enter adulthood with those same perceptions, that same lack of self-confidence.
If, on the other hand, they’re able to cultivate their interests, learn to be comfortable in their own quirky skin, encouraged to achieve as much as their little over-achieving hearts desire, they’ll enter adulthood with the confidence to continue on that path.They have a hard, or even impossible, time finding their niche. Or the fact that they like to memorize things and wish the math assignments were harder.They must either hide their true personality and inclinations in order to be accepted or they’re pushed to the fringes and made to feel abnormal. Made to feel less likable than those who keep their ideas and opinions to themselves or fail to form any to begin with. No one looks at them askance when they know every answer to every question and are eager to share their knowledge. That their interests are boring and a waste of time? He will never tire of feeling your breasts, caressing your ass and watching you bend over. However, deep down inside men are still amazed that anyone would want to have sex with . It’s because when straight men look at other men, all we see are awkward, lumbering goofs with bad manners and hairy bodies. Men have no problem accepting that women are different. I could point to any number of things that my partner does, that are completely in alignment with her nature, and label them selfish. He likes your lips, your body, your eyes and the way you smell. Sure, we complain, but I have yet to talk to man who had any idea, no matter how fleeting, that he could change the woman in his life. “THE FACT THAT YOUR MAN LOOKS AT PORN HAS NO RELATIONSHIP TO HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU, YOUR RELATIONSHIP OR HOW HAPPY OR SEXUALLY SATISFIED HE IS. Standing your ground (doing what you want) is selfish. You can leave a response, or trackback from your own site. Bending to their will (doing what they want) is generous and a virtue.