His chances with this girl were dead as was any future chances with any of her friends or most girls he knew within the area code.Due to the embarrassment and rejection he would simply rather not go through that again.They are guys -- flawed humans who just have not figured it out yet.
I invite ladies to be a fly on the wall and listen to the words of their confusing masculine counterparts.
You are in a sparsely furnished living room with even less décor on the walls; pizza boxes and pop cans are unevenly distributed in various spots in the room.
The no itself was hard for him to take, because he really did care for this girl, but what happened is that this girl went back and told all of her friends and they began to review all of his strengths and weaknesses.
By the time it was over not only did all of her friends know, but their friends knew and their friends' brothers knew that he asked, she said no, and that he was not tall enough for the average girl to really honestly consider.
After enduring several comments on sports, cars, and food, you begin to think this is a lost cause. In the volley of verbal discussion you are quite surprised to find out that a lot of thought is put into this subject, considering the fact that it often seems that guys do not talk about relationships, let alone pursue them. In fact, if what these guys say is true, emotions are just not enough.
A guy may be interested in a girl and still do and say nothing. Because guys believe there are more factors to consider than feelings. One of the guys explains a time when he was bold enough to ask a girl out, but she said no.
Under his breath you barely hear these words, “No one likes to fail…I don’t want to fail.” “You’re right…no one likes to fail, but no matter what any of us guys do we will all do exactly that.” A guy says from behind his saddened, but stern eyes.
He continues to convey how he feels that no matter how hard a guy tries, it won’t be good enough in the end any how.
You have put numerous amounts of hours lamenting how media has affected the perception of the ideal beauty and the pressures you have likely felt with all of the super models on TV, yet it never really dawned on you how that same thing might be occurring for guys.
What do fairy tales and romantic comedies say about guys?
He said, “Nothing…I would pursue a girl, but I just have not found what I’m looking for.” The guys asked him what that was exactly. ” All of a sudden the audio is lost; then the video also fades and you realize that your masculine passport is expiring.