The truth is bw/wm couples are some of the longest lasting marriages out there.
They'll fight arduously to retain this antiquated stereotype alive, because it fits in with their program.
This enables them to sleep better at night while they uphold ww as the epitome of beauty, purity, innocence, and womanly essence.
The last time I watched one of these 'coincidental pairings' the very dark wife got angry that the husband had wine while she was away. Her mother also acted a fool, and their 3 beautiful daughters were caught in the middle.
She had the nerve to come in screaming at him, that SHE did not allow wine in her house! ) The husband (a handsome wm) seemed inordinately happy to see her when he got back, but then she lit into him and destroyed the whole mood, in a matter a few scant minutes. She was off on a screaming tangent, and the husband dropped the flowers he had bought for her, and dejectedly slunk away. The point of picking a very passive husband, is to make it seem like the majority of wm are weak, passive, can't stand up to their women, and are woefully lacking a backbone.
Whenever I watch wife swap, I notice if it's a bw/wm IR couple, they'll always use a very disempowering, aggressive, almost bitchy type bw.
Then they'll pair her with a nauseatingly passive wm, and 'pretend' it's just a coincidence that the couple happens to be that way!
The segment ended with the white wife crying happily to have her husband back, and the black wife screaming, shrieking, and locking him out of the bedroom! The truth is passive men come in ALL colors, and most wm are NOT passive!
The purpose of throwing these men under the bus is to make them as unattractive, and unappealing to non-white women as possible.
This is why women are often accused of wanting 'thugs'.